Last night while conversing with a female friend, she admitted to me she has never had an οrgasm before. Shocked by what this grown woman confessed to me, I couldn’t help but feel sad for her. It must suck to have sex over and over again without ever reaching the ultimate climax.
She told me her problem was not knowing how to tell her partners what she wanted and what they were lacking. She wanted to avoid damaging the ego of these men, but it came at the expense of her own enjoyment.
I’m sure this is an issue for many women. They moan, scream and make all the faces that have these men thinking they are doing the damn thing when in reality they are coming up short.
Ladies, you deserve to have mind blowing sex, so before your next acting gig arrives, take these methods into consideration.
1- Take Control - This will only work for the receptive gentleman but can be a great way for you to relay to him everything you desire without it coming off as him not knowing what he’s doing. The mere fact that you’re sexing him will certainly put him at ease while you boss him around.
2- Write Him an extensive poem/Story - Men love sex. We love having sex. We love watching sex. We love hearing sex. So of course we wouldn’t mind reading about it. Use your creativity and pen him an exοtic story letting him know everything you want to do with him and vice versa. Don’t leave out the specifics!
3- Pillow Talk- People are usually more receptive to criticism after receiving compliments. Well this is your opportunity to tell him all the things you LOVE that he does for you and all the things you’d like him to add to his repertoire. Make him go first to assure he’s even more comfortable receiving your suggestions.
It’s time you ladies speak up and put these men on notice. If he’s into you, he’ll appreciate the suggestions and take heed immediately. I wish you all the οrgasms you can possibly handle.
by Thee Urban Sophisticate
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